FINAL PART 1

1. My evaluation on this course is that it was kind of boring i wish we would have done something that we would all have like not just Mr. Haymore.

A. I didn't really really like anything about this class, i found it super boring.

B. Suggestion on how to improve this class would be to write about something we like , like us kids.

2.I mean you really don't have to try. You just have to do the post then your passing

4. I'm not a CTR person i just know whats right from wrong. 

Six ways to make people like you. If you want people to like you……….

Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

“Do this and you will be welcome anywhere”

“You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in you”

“Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering.”

Reflection: My reflection on what Dale Carnegie said was very meaning for like pretty much all he’s telling you to do is be you , don’t try to be different for anyone . By being you , you will have more friends then you think.

Rule 2:Smile

1)   “Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, “I like you, you make me happy. I am glad to see you.”

2)   “you don’t feel like smiling? then force yourself to smile.”

3)   “It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign(witness or indication)or friends.”
rule 3: remember names 
1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language"
2)"If  you dont remember names, you are headed for trouble"
rule 4: be a good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves.
"If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener"
"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his want and his problems than he is in you and your problems."
rule 5: talk in terms of the other mans interest.
"The royal road to a mans hear is to talk to him about the things he treasures most"



5 steps
1) stay focused, keep touch,and maintain eye contact 
2) really listen, don't think about your experience or what you have to say next
3) allow for a period of silence, wait til the other person speaks again.
4)repeat the other persons words or paraphrase it back to them 
5) understand the emotions behind the words

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.

"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature."(John Dewey)"helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

-My reflection on the six rule of making people feel important is good because everyone should feel wanted by someone in life so they could know how it feel and to be able to feel special.

Reflection:My reflection on these six way to make people like you to me are over exaggeration because if you want someone to like you , you have to show them the way you are don't be fronting on who you really are ! be yourself if that person doesnt not like it then maybe you should be friends with them. Their not wrought your time if all they are gonna be doing when you see them is judge you. never let anyone change yourself. So all i really wanted to say was that i dont like these six way to make people like you. some of these rule are common sense. 

Glenn Cunningham-Have Heart 

Glenn Cunningham is a man who was told be wasn’t able to walk or do anything with his legs but he set a goal to run in the Olympian and become a doctor with he both ended up doing and having he a family of 10 kids.

“The Six Attitudes Of High Achievers”

High Achievers……….
1. Make No Small Plans

 These are the people who excel in terms of skills and responsibilities. Results-driven and motivated, they work to a high standard, with little need for supervision or hand-holding.

In 1995, Derek Jeter realized his dream when Yankees shortstop Tony Fernandez was put on the disabled list. Jeter made his big league debut on May 29 of that year, playing against the Seattle Mariners. The following year, in his first full season as a Major League Baseball player, he batted .314 with 10 home runs. The skilled shortstop also performed well in the infield and helped the Yankees win the World Series against the Atlanta Braves. Jeter won the 1996 American League Rookie of the Year Award for his performance that season. Jeter developed into one of baseball's top all-around players and the lynchpin of a perennially dominant Yankees team. He earned his first of 14 All-Star selections in 1998, a season that ended with the first of three straight world championships for the Bronx Bombers. He led the majors in hits and tallied career highs in home runs and RBIs in 1999, and in 2000 he became the first player to be named the All-Star Game and World Series MVP in the same season. Known for his patented "inside-out" swing and acrobatic jump-throws, Jeter developed a reputation as a player who thrived in pressure-packed moments. In perhaps the most famous play of his career, he ran down an errant throw from the outfield and delivered "The Flip" to home plate to record an important out against the Oakland A's in the 2001 playoffs. A few weeks later, he blasted a 10th-inning home run to beat the Arizona Diamondbacks in Game 4 of the World Series. His winning style earned the respect and admiration of coaches, sports commentators, peers and fans, and he was named team captain in 2003. jeter suffered his first major injury that season when a collision left him with a separated shoulder, but he was as good as ever after returning. He won the first of five gold glove awards for fielding excellence in 2004, and in 2006 he finished second in the voting for the league MVP award .In September 2009, Jeter passed lou gehrig with his 2,722nd hit -- the most in franchise history -- before earning his fifth world championship ring at the end of the season. In July 2011, he homered to become the 28th player in history to reach 3,000 career ,Limited to just 17 games in 2013 due to a lingering ankle injury, Jeter announced he would be retiring after the 2014 season, his 20th in the majors. Although his numbers were well below his usual lofty standards, "The Captain" proved he could still rise to the occasion for big moments. He started a rally for the American League with a leadoff double in the All-Star Game, and knocked home the game-winning run in his final at-bat at Yankee Stadium in September. In addition to his five world championships, Jeter finished with an impressive .310 lifetime batting average, and his 3,465 hits ranked sixth in big league history.

2. Do What They Fear

Martin Luther King, Jr. he did “what they fear” In the 1960 he took a stand to get the right for those who were treated differently. Those man and women that were told they had rights but in reality had none. He did not use violence to get what he wanted. He just wanted to he heard to be brave to stand up for those who were to scared to stand up for themselves. Just wanted to make a change that would people those that needed there rights 

4. Are willing to risk failure

 yes. I am willing to risk failure. You have to in life. life is crazy and there a risk everyday weather you want there to be or not. In life your taking risk every day either is a risk that is good or it’s a risk that can cost you everything but its mostly a good risk.

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5.Are Teachable

Being teachable is to be willing to be teached by anyone, on anything and just to have an open mind in being showed how to do something.to not get mad if you don’t get it just to keep asking questions. just like when my dad drops me off in the mornings to school he tell me “just to keep asking question even though your teacher might get mad or annoyed and even though it might be stupid question to the rest of the question. it doesn’t matter as long as you get it don’t worry about what others think about you”.

One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers, but with gratitude to those who touched our human feelings. The curriculum is so much necessary raw material, but warmth is the vital element for the growing plant and for the soul of the child.

6.Have Heart

 

-to be compassionate; to be generous and forgiving; to have an especially compassionate heart.

to have an heart is to be able to have feeling and tell other people feelings and to know people feelings and how to be about to be there to help people with there feeling and what might be going though. just to help them and care for them and everything to make them feel good .But having a heart is a weakness because you might just open your heart to someone how you know is just gonna play with it . even though they say there not it would be a good thing for you to put some walls up to protect your heart from getting crushed. it will hurt so much but life will hurt you no matter what so always have you head up high and a couple of wallls just to be safe .

Way To Be

9 Ways To Be Happy And Make Something Of Your Life 

Gordon B. Hinckley

 1.          Be Grateful

My reflection on this quote is that you always gonna say thank you to those you are grateful of.

2. Be Smart

My reflection on "be smart"

3. Be Involved In Good Works

My reflection on this one which is to have a job that involves you doing something good for over people like helping those who are in need is a good thing and something you should be proud of.

4. Be Clean

My reflection on "be clean" has many different thing one is that you brush your teeth in the morning, take showers like stuff your suppose to be doing daily. second is like having a clean mind when it comes to others. third is having a clean body system.

5. Be True

 

My reflection on the topic to be true just means that you will always be true to yourself like never lie to yourself and always be proud of yourself never put yourself down.

6. Be Positive

When we think of the word “positive,” most of us probably think “happy.” However, happiness isn’t the only type of positivity. There are many ways to be more positive in your life, even when you’re experiencing sadness, anger, or challenges.age you want it to be at the end of the day its your life so you do whatever makes you happy and have a positive mind set . 

My overall reflection on this these 9 things . are that this is a dumb class it has no meaning at all. that ctr saying that he always says are dumb no one in there life is not gonna make a mistake thinking it was right . I sure as hell know that haymore fuckled up. no matter what it is that you are doing in life mistakes come even when your doing everything to not having any ….. it gets me hella mad that you think you can teach about god like I have my own befielf it I belive in god that’s my choice nit yours . i didn’t know this was a church or a bibble school .. this whole thing that you wanted us to right about is the way you belive life should be and I don’t like that because you don’t care about others oppion. 

Commitment

-the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc.

ex: dedication, devotion, allegiance, loyalty, faithfulness, fidelity 

My reflection on this place just mean if you said you were gonna do something you have to commitment yourself and not back out in any way or form because you are the one who said they commitment.

A Smile

-A Facial expression in which the eyes brighten and the corners of the mouth curve slightly upward and which expresses especially amusement, pleasure, approval, or sometimes scorn. 

-My reflection on the quote is it’s a good thing because everyone needs to smile in life to be happy and not lonely

-My example is the saying “With a smile becomes a brighter day”

BOB MARLEY

I choose Bob Marley as my personal development because I love the way bob marley was. he was never afraid of saying what he wanted to say. He stood up for what he thought was best. He inspired you to do what you wanted and not let anyone stop you to show them you are stronger than they think.

Caring

Caring is a displaying kindness and concern for others.

“Leadership is solving problems. The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help or concluded you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership.”

My reflection on this piece just shows that caring is a BIG part of our daily life. During the Day you are caring more than you think most of time you don’t even know that you are doing it it just naturally just like breathing if you are not caring it just that you are actually making yourself not be. 

                                   

Personal Development Quote

“A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder.”

-Thomas Carlyle

Thomas Carlyle statement just means that a man without a goal is just a man that is just gonna end up a low life whos not gonna be prepared to face life when it hits him with bumps. he’ll just end up acting like a hard time in life didn’t just happen.

REFLECTION: My reflection is when you don’t have goal you don’t really have anything to look up to that you want so bad that you would jump over any bumps or struggles to get to your goal just like if you were a parent your child is you first thing you think about before making any other decisions.

This quote relates to my 100+ life planning goals because its showing that I will get to my GOALS sooner or later. At least have a couple of goals the older you get the more goals you will be having in life just be open to any opportunitys  in life .

                                           

Personal Development Attribute

Assertiveness

100 life planning goals

1.DONT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU!

2.Finish building (Gina)

3.Graduate high school

4.Go to the army

5.Graduate college 

6.Get a job

7.Prove everyone wrong

8.Make my family proud 

9.Start my own family (one son)

10.Never relay on any man

11.Be proud of what i've done 

12.Go over every bump

13.Go to a raiders game

14.Go to new york and meet the yankees

15.Travel to el salvador